Saturday, July 25, 2015

Narcissistic Parents Affect Your Family!

Narcissistic parents affect your own family whether you are no contact or not.











Saturday, May 30, 2015

Narcissistic Parent - Family Dynamics

Family dynamics plays a huge part in who you disclose your parent's narcissism to.





Tuesday, May 5, 2015

Narcissistic Parents - Take Back Your Control!

Narcissistic parents thrive on control.  When you begin to become independent, they become confused, and desperate.








Thursday, December 11, 2014

Sunday, November 9, 2014

Narcissists Love Drama!


Calmly tell them you disagree, and they are entitled to their opinion.

Thursday, October 30, 2014

Narcissistic Parents Demand Respect!





Narcissistic Parents feel they are entitled to respect simply by because they are your parent.  How do you feel about this??























Monday, September 22, 2014

Narcissistic Parents Use Emotional Blackmail!

Narcissistic parents use emotional blackmail on their children.  They also pit siblings against each other.  

Does this sound familiar?




Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Narcissistic Parents - Control!

Narcissistic parents want to control their children's life.  They will not tolerate independent children.  Even as adults they want to control every facet of their children's life.  Who they marry, where they work, how many children they have, etc.  The list never ends!














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 Is your parent always trying to tell you what to do under the guise of "knowing what is best for you?"

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Narcissistic Parental - Traits!

Just because your parent is a narcissist, does NOT mean you are doomed to be narcissistic.  You may have some of the traits which are simply due to your childhood environment.  Here are just a few:
    
    being very negative
    no confidence or over-confidence
    become angered quickly
    have trouble with relationships
    low self-esteem

The good news is... that you can change, your parent can't!

 


Monday, August 4, 2014

Narcissistic Parents Brainwash Their Children

Narcissistic parents repeat the same negative messages over & over to their children.  This is done so that the parent is able to control the child.  The child eventually ends up with self-doubt, and believing the lies!  Running away will not solve the problem.


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 The parent must be stood up to!  No you will never change their mind/opinion about you, but standing up to them is for you! (not them!) By standing up to them, you will begin to build your self-esteem and gain your freedom.  You will stop believing their lies.

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Narcissistic Parents Accuse Children Of Being Disrespectful & Ungrateful!

How many times have you been accused of being disrespectful or ungrateful?  "After all I have done for you!"  Does that sound familiar?  This is a common manipulative statement from a narcissistic parent.  They tend to say this when they want something from you, OR don't want to do something you have asked of them.

Monday, July 7, 2014

Narcissistic Parents Ridicule Their Children!

A narcissistic parent will constantly ridicule their child.  Their adult child is treated as though they are still a kid.  The narcissistic parent will accuse their child of certain "faulty" behaviors.  If you are able to step back and look at the situation, you will see that what they are blaming you for is their own behavior!  For example, if they say you are lazy, they are lazy.  If they accuse you of telling lies, they are lying to others. 

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