Saturday, August 30, 2014

Narcissistic Mother Or Father - Get Help!

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Friday, August 29, 2014

Going No Contact With Your Narcissistic Parent Is Only A Temporary Fix!

Going no contact with you narcissistic parent is only a temporary fix to the problem.  Yes, brings immediate relief to the situation, but it is short lived.  You must work on removing the damage!  Simply running away is not the answer.  Having no contact during the time of your healing however, is a good idea! 

By no means am I saying you have to have contact with them. Everyone's situation is different. Figuratively, if you were to have contact with the narcissistic parent, they would not affect you.  An example: some people have a relationship with the non-narcissistic parent and call to speak to them.  The narcissistic parent may answer the phone, and you are unaffected by them.

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Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Narcissistic Abuse - You Can Heal!

It takes a lot of work, but you can DEFINITELY heal from narcissistic abuse! 
I did it, and so can you!

Saturday, August 23, 2014

Narcissistic Parents Want Control!

Your narcissistic parent loses their grip on your life once you stand up for yourself.

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Narcissistic Parent

A narcissistic parent is:


They will manipulate, lie, use emotional blackmail, brainwash, shame, guilt, berate....and the list goes on.

Narcissistic Parents - Control!

Narcissistic parents want to control their children's life.  They will not tolerate independent children.  Even as adults they want to control every facet of their children's life.  Who they marry, where they work, how many children they have, etc.  The list never ends!

 Is your parent always trying to tell you what to do under the guise of "knowing what is best for you?"

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Narcissistic Parental - Traits!

Just because your parent is a narcissist, does NOT mean you are doomed to be narcissistic.  You may have some of the traits which are simply due to your childhood environment.  Here are just a few:
    being very negative
    no confidence or over-confidence
    become angered quickly
    have trouble with relationships
    low self-esteem

The good news is... that you can change, your parent can't!


Monday, August 4, 2014

Narcissistic Parents Brainwash Their Children

Narcissistic parents repeat the same negative messages over & over to their children.  This is done so that the parent is able to control the child.  The child eventually ends up with self-doubt, and believing the lies!  Running away will not solve the problem. 
 The parent must be stood up to!  No you will never change their mind/opinion about you, but standing up to them is for you! (not them!) By standing up to them, you will begin to build your self-esteem and gain your freedom.  You will stop believing their lies.