A narcissistic parent will constantly ridicule their child. Their adult child is treated as though they are still a kid. The narcissistic parent will accuse their child of certain "faulty" behaviors. If you are able to step back and look at the situation, you will see that what they are blaming you for is their own behavior! For example, if they say you are lazy, they are lazy. If they accuse you of telling lies, they are lying to others.